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If you at a loss on how to make a woman feel truly safe during your very first date with her, then this is what you need to know. When men think about going on a date, they wonder if the woman they are meeting for the first time will like their face, humour or where they picked for the date. Some also wonder if she will be beautiful in person as she is in her dating profile. On the other hand, women who are meeting their dates for the first time wonder whether these men will see them as good company and even fear for their lives. Many women worry about their safety while meeting men for first time dates. This is why men should add making a woman feel safe to their list of pre-date concerns. If your date doesn’t feel at ease, she won’t laugh at your joke, no matter how funny it is. If she’s worried about her safety, she won’t appreciate the cute date spot. Make your date feel safe with these tips. Only lean in as far as she does If you are sitting across fro...

1. The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping you will be a good match for him. The Guy You Marry: Thinks about what he has to offer you. He loves you because of who you are- he appreciates your quirks, your flaws and strange sense of humor, the way you snort when you laugh and read Charles Dickens every winter, and everything he’s come to know about you. He is hoping he will be a good husband for you. 2. The Guy You Date:  Is quick to become jealous when you’re around other guys. He gets angry easily, which often ends up in long, petty arguments. He is possessive over your time, and although that can be cute at times, it can also become just downright annoying. The Guy You Marry: Places his trust in you, and gives you the benefit of the doubt. ...

If you don’t want to grow white hairs before you get married, here are the things you need to do to attract your man and get married on time: 1. SMILE:  Men love smiling women. No, not the one that begins and ends with the mouth, the one that starts from the eyes. Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people baby, women who lack men’s attention rarely smile. They are always cold and look as if they are carrying the problem of the whole world on their head! Some of these ladies even frown a lot! Look, everybody has a problem, no man wants to add another person’s problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy person and show it by smiling at people. Men will find you irresistible and seek to know you more. 2. BE HUMBLE:  Humble women don’t lack suitors! One way to stay single for a long long time is to be proud and cocky! Proud women are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at people, segregate you...

Women have s*x when they want, unlike men that have s*x whenever they can. From confessions I have gathered, it emerges that women have s*x for physical, emotional and material reasons; to boost their self-esteem, to keep their lovers, or because they are raped or coerced, and this one just to say ‘I did it’. Pity patter s*x Women may sometimes give in to s*x for this simple reason; after all , we are women with maternal instincts. Women have confirmed over and again to have had s*x with men just because they felt sorry for them. According to one, she had been dating a guy over two years and he had been pleading with her all through. One day, she said she took pity on him and agreed. However, he was out of the door as soon as he could pull his pants up (just like a dog). Here is an advice, girls: have s*x because you want to and not because you feel pressured to, or are sorry for the guy (if he doesn’t have blue eyes then I don’t see why you cannot stay away). That...

Do you want to stop your woman from cheating on your in your marriage or relationship? Here are the secrets you've been waiting for.  Finally, researchers have discovered the singular s*x style that is capable of preventing a woman from going astray in a relationship! For men who love to have a head, aka oral s*x, with their women, researchers have said there are scientific reasons for that pastime, and that it is one huge way a man could keep his woman and prevent her from cheating! The researchers claim that women love their men to perform oral s*x on them, and that one of the reasons for that preference is as a result of evolution. They add that women are likely to be more satisfied by a man who regularly performs oral s*x on them. In fact, it turns out that women may actually have evolved to be more attracted to men who regularly perform oral s*x on them. A research published in the Medical Daily draws this conclusion from a 2013 study of 243 men in long-...

A young lady who has been masturbating deeply from the tender age of 13 before she started having penetrative s*x at the age of 26 has opened up on her predicament.  No matter the intensity of the s*x, this unnamed lady will always go back to masturbating to get full s*xual satisfaction.  She is finding it hard to get full answers for her puzzle and she has sent a message to a relationship adviser and blogger, Joro Olumofin for advice from his followers. Read her story below:

A lady who has been having s*x with a random man that later turned out to be her superior in the office has recounted their dangerous romance.  A young lady is currently caught in the bed of an illicit relationship with her boss in the office. According to her brief letter forwarded to a relationship adviser, Joro Olumofin, the man in question has been sleeping with her without protection as well as other ladies. She is presently struggling to break loose but all to no avail. Read her story below:

Masturbation is often used as an escape or coping activity for stress, anger, loneliness, tiredness, fear and generally for s* xual satisfaction. Masturbation also known as self-s*x is the erotic stimulation of one’s self s*xually. It is done with hands, fingers, a vibrator and lubricants that stimulates one’s genitals for s*xual satisfaction. Masturbation is addictive and very rampant too. It is an activity few talk about but many partake in. Therefore, we shouldn’t shy away from talking about it. Although masturbation is often associated with males, it is performed by both genders. Most people learn to masturbate during adolescence, but the number of females who indulge in self s*x cannot be compared to their male counterparts. Masturbation is often used as an escape or coping activity for stress, anger, loneliness, tiredness, fear and generally for sexual satisfaction. Most people that indulge in this act can’t go a day without masturbating. Like any s...

A young man is presently in a state of limbo after he discovered that his father has been having s*x discreetly with the mother of his bride-to-be.  They say s*x drives drop when people clock 70, but this couple has refused to be deterred by the toll of their age. The male counterpart is even spicing up his virility with s*x pill to ensure efficient pleasure and service delivery. The apprehensive man counting days to his marriage is concerned about going ahead as his father is sleeping with his fiancee's mother. This is capable of destroying their upcoming marriage as the parties are still maritally tied. He hopes his bride-to-be will never take after her cheating mother. Read the story below:

Women can be romantic, passionate, devoted, eloquent, and most times confusing, as women we are wired like that which why we say one thing and mean another thing totally. Even though men can be confusing at times but not as confusing as we ladies, which is why we hang on to unnecessary things in relationships which automatically affects our relationship. Here are some things all women should stop doing in their relationships . 1. Speaking in monosyllables:  Let’s be honest, there are several times we want to scream at your man for whatever reason but we end up with “Fine” or “Ok” which is so unhealthy in a relationship. Ladies, stop bottling in your emotion speak your mind to your partner or else it will affect your relationship in the long run. 2. Feeling insecure and jealous:  We understand that there are times we have reasons to be jealous and insecure in our relationships but when you get jealous unnecessarily it becomes a major problem in your...

A woman who is about to get married has cried out for help after discovering that her man loves s*x very much.  A Nigerian woman has cried out for help as her fiance with high s*x drive is about to put her in harms way after he subjected her to many rounds of s*x bouts leaving her seriously bruises. Cynthia Valerian Raphaels, a relationship expert shared the story on Facebook: "Madam, I have known a man for four years now, we have been talking on phone. My brothers friend precisely. So he proposed on phone and I accepted. He spoke to my mother and we fixed the date, his people came and paid my bride price money on January.  Madam he came back for the first time last month for the traditional wedding with my two brothers. The date has been fixed last Saturday of this month but I mean worried.  Madam he is a sex bastardized fellow. He can do three stretch once he starts, non stop. Even when I am shouting saying it is paining me ooo to his ears, h...

Thinking for an easy way to spice up your sexual life? Here are 5 easy but interesting s*x positions to make your s*x life more fun. S*x is not just a big component of most intimate relationships, it can also be used to build strong bond. As the weekend sets in, experiment with these five s*x positions to make you even closer to your partner… 1. Seated lotus:  This position offers the face-to-face intensity of missionary with the excitement of a new position. One partner sits with legs loosely crossed, while the other is on top with legs wrapped around the partner’s back. Here, your bodies are touching entirely, and your faces are close enough to kiss, whisper, or laugh together, says a s*x therapist, Rachel Needle. 2. Doggy style:  Here, you face away from your partner and connect from behind. It naturally facilitates one of the best ways to bond, especially when it comes to shared orgasms. For women, this position gives deep penetration that can lead to immen...

An interesting new study has revealed the stunning number of co-workers who engage in s*x while at their work place.   If you’ve noticed that your co-workers book out a meeting room for an unspecified chat on a regular basis, chances are that they are doing every other thing but official meeting! A new survey from Yellow Octopus has found that one in 10 people are having s*x at work. Researchers surveyed over 1,000 people about their in-office behaviour, and found that s*x at work is, indeed happening — and perhaps with more frequency than you might expect. Of the people surveyed, 11 per cent said they had had sex in the office with a co-worker, while four per cent said they had done it with a non-employee — meaning, they had brought someone into the building unofficially. The majority did it after office hours, but around a third managed to get away with sex in office during work hours. Technically, they were getting paid to enjoy s*x. And before anyon...

A new study by Stephanie Thiers-Ratcliffe of Cotton USA has revealed that couples who sleep n* ked have a happier relationship. If you and your partner love to sleep n*ked, chances are that you are happy in your relationship —perhaps even happier than couples you know who sleep wearing pyjamas or some other pieces of clothing! This is because a new survey has revealed that couples who sleep naked have a happier relationship. The study from Cotton USA, asked couples what they slept in at bedtime and then asked them to rate how happy they were in their relationship. The results showed that 57 per cent of those who slept in the nude said they felt happy, compared to 48 per cent of pyjamas wearers, 43 per cent of nightie wearers and a mere 38 per cent of people who wore pants, bum shorts, etc. Stephanie Thiers-Ratcliffe of Cotton USA said that one of the leading factors for this was that the nakedness encouraged intimacy and openness, thanks to the skin-on-skin c...

I slept with my big sister’s husband. His manhood was hard. I’m now feeling heat in my vag area, and looking for Bible passages to help me…lady cries out! Popular Lagos-based Psychologist and Relationship therapist, Joro Olumofin, has taken to his Instagram blog page and shared the story of a lady who is filled with so much guilt after sleeping with her sister’s husband. According to the lady who narrated the story on the popular online platform, she was alone with her sister’s husband one day and his huge manhood got erected and he entered her for behind, and since then, they’ve had s*x up to three times. She added that she’s about leaving their house after packing her things, but she is still feeling the heat of the intercourse in her v*gina. Here’s the e-mail she sent to the Love Doctor;

There are loads of stories that show clearly that love can be found on social media. Uncountable marriages began with an ‘hi’ on Facebook, Instagram was where some others found the bone of their bones, and many others can share stories of true romance which they found on Whatsapp . Don’t get carried away though, for every rosy love story which began by typing the right words at the right time, there are many others that got snuffed out before its embers could glow. So, before you try to initiate a relationship with that pretty babe or buff guy you’ve been crushing on, these are five things you should know; 1. It could be a glorious success… As already stated above, love lives in the Nigerian atmosphere and with good Internet connection and a nice chunk of luck, you can tap into it. If you’ve found someone online whose persona has caught you in a web of attraction, don’t be afraid to say something, it could be the beginning of great things for you. 2. O...

Your social media posts may win over friends and get you few hundred or thousand likes, shares or retweets, however they can also cost you a job. Here are five social media mistakes most likely to cost you a job: You complain about work When hiring managers sometimes browse through social media profiles of candidates, imagine what their impression of you will be when they see job complaint posts on your wall. They are very likely going to be turned off and conclude that you are a potential danger to their brand (mainly because there is nothing to stop you from bad-mouthing their firm too). The question then will be, ‘Will I want to hire a person that can be a potential danger to the brand of my firm?’ and the answer to that question is quite clear. You’re vulgar or offensive If you (with a personal account that you can be identified with) are offensive or vulgar enough on social media to warrant mentions or retweets, it’s out there for everyone to see and it’s esp...

A survey conducted by contraceptive app Natural Cycles has revealed the age women are likely to have the best orgasms of their lives.  According to a report by Dailystar, a new study has revealed the age women will have the best orgasms of their lives.  The report revealed that 36 is the ideal age most women have the best orgasms of their lives. The survey was conducted by contraceptive app Natural Cycles who asked more than 2,600 women what age they have the best orgasms. As it turns out, your mid-thirties is when climaxes reach peak intensity. The women also said it was this age they felt most attractive and enjoyed s*x more at this age.  The survey measured female sexuality through a number of categories including satisfaction (frequency of intercourse, satisfaction of partner), attraction (in the eyes of a partner and self-perceived) and orgasm (enjoyment and frequency). In general, the older women get, the better sex is. The survey ...

A woman has told of the shocking period she got pregnant for another man while her husband was on official business trips.  Mojisola Ajiboye, a divorce-seeking housewife, on Thursday told an Agege Customary Court that her husband is not the biological father of her son. NAN reports that she gave the testimony in the divorce suit she filed against her estranged husband at the court. The petitioner, a 30-year-old nurse, who resides at No. 46, Shiaba St., Agege , a Lagos suburb, said she regretted her seven-year marriage to Samson Nkanang, 33. She claims that the husband usually abandons her at home and travels on official trips without any form of care. “My husband is irresponsible and has turned me into a punching bag, I am no longer interested in the union; I want the loveless marriage dissolved,’’ she pleaded with the court. The petitioner told the court that the petitioner whom she has been married to for over seven years is not the biol...

When it comes to s*x intercourse with a partner, men need a re-orientation in the way they think about women's s* xual needs. Here are answers to the s*x mistakes that most men make. S*x experts think that a change in thinking may improve the typical man’s s*x life. So, they suggest answers to the s*x mistakes that most men make. Here are they... •You make s*x start in the bedroom:  S*x therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner, notes that while men may develop erection at the sight of a woman’s n*ked body, arousal doesn’t happen so fast for women. Suggestion: Pave the way during the day by hugging, kissing, and holding hands. Have some fun together, and show you appreciate her. Feeling safe and secure in the relationship is key for a woman to really let loose during s*x, Kerner says. •You think you know what she wants:  Women are good at faking orgasm, says Kerner. So, if she’s not enjoying the s*x, you might not know it. Suggestion: Don’t be afraid to ask qu...